Love & Relationships
She inhales deeply. While struggling to hold back the tears, her voice wobbles through gritted teeth: “I feel like it is my fault” and in that moment she allows herself to give into the overarching sadness, anxiety, rejection, and disappointment she has felt for so long in regards to love and relationships.
After years and years of working on herself, studying with spiritual gurus, and reading what feels like every self-help book on the subject of love, she told me still feels anxious with men, she still feels not feminine enough, and ultimately not good enough. After all, the proof is in the pudding, she hasn’t found that soulmate relationship yet.
This was what happened in one of my first sessions as a three-principles dating and relationships mentor. I remember being overwhelmed with compassion as her words tugged at my heartstrings. It hit close to home. I remember how heavy of a burden it is to live from that place. A paradigm where I need to continually strive, struggle, and improve myself in order to find and experience lasting love.
All of that changed for me, and the thousands of other people around the world, who have stumbled upon a scientific, logical, and universal framework for being human that naturally supports the experience of more love and a healthier love life in general.
I am certainly living proof. One year ago, I didn’t believe in “soulmates”, was disillusioned by past relationships, and had no intention of getting married. Today I am happily engaged to a man that is without a doubt, my soulmate and I have experienced a level of connection I never thought was possible with another human being.
The beautiful reality of this is that, there is nothing special about me and that this level of connection of is possible for every human being…including you. (I Invite you to feel the truth behind this statement, instead of dismissing it off-hand with all the reasons why you are “destined to be alone.”)
I am so passionate about this truth that I started investigating what dating experts, spiritual gurus, and traditional coaches were saying…and I WAS HORRIFIED.
Shocked and horrified. Though unintentional, much of what is being advised is based on untrue assumptions and creates a false cause-and-effect framework. Ironically, the result is that it pulls people further away from the feelings of love and connection they so desire…like the client I spoke about in the first paragraph.
Me, Amy Leo, and my team at Escaping The Rat Race are on a mission to transform the way we love ourselves and one another, co-creating a community of half a million people over the next 30 years who are living with sustainable joy, love, and understanding.
Can you contribute to this mission? Share this with someone who will benefit from a kinder, more effective paradigm for love, dating, and relationships.
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--Dr. Dicken Bettinger
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“FINALLY FEEL LIKE I CAN LIVE AND BE ALIVE AND AT PEACE”
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- Client + Father of 2
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